Chronic Anxiety Counseling: Finding Hope for Change

When anxiety feels constant—showing up in your body, racing thoughts, or relationships—it can be discouraging to wonder if peace is even possible. Many people blame themselves or feel stuck in cycles of worry they can’t control. In this post, Catherine Cain, LMSW (supervised by Melissa Gould, LCSW-S), shares how therapy can help calm an overactive nervous system, untangle anxious patterns, and create space for lasting peace and freedom.
Living with chronic anxiety is more than everyday stress — it’s an exhausting cycle that affects your body, mind, and relationships. You may wake up with a knot in your stomach, lie awake with racing thoughts, or carry constant tension that won’t let you rest.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t I just get it together?” you are not broken. Anxiety has simply been working overtime to keep you “safe,” and with the right support, it is possible to step out of overdrive and move toward peace.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t I just get it together?” you are not broken. Anxiety has simply been working overtime to keep you “safe,” and with the right support, it is possible to step out of overdrive and move toward peace.
What Chronic Anxiety Feels Like
Chronic anxiety can show up in many ways:
Beyond the physical symptoms, anxiety often carries a heavy emotional weight: shame, the fear of being “too much,” or worrying you’re a burden to others. It can make it hard to set boundaries, leave you overthinking every interaction, or keep you stuck between withdrawing and people-pleasing.
- Racing thoughts that don’t stop, no matter how tired you are
- Muscle tension, stomach aches, or a constant feeling of restlessness
- Trouble sleeping or focusing, even when you want to
Beyond the physical symptoms, anxiety often carries a heavy emotional weight: shame, the fear of being “too much,” or worrying you’re a burden to others. It can make it hard to set boundaries, leave you overthinking every interaction, or keep you stuck between withdrawing and people-pleasing.
Why Does Anxiety Persist?
There’s a good reason anxiety feels so powerful: it’s wired into your nervous system. When your brain senses danger—real or imagined—it activates fight, flight, or freeze mode. For some people, that survival system gets stuck “on,” even when there’s no immediate threat.
Past experiences, perfectionistic tendencies, or trauma can reinforce these loops, teaching your brain that it always needs to be on guard. That’s why anxiety isn’t a weakness — it’s your nervous system adapting to protect you.
The hopeful news? With the right support, those neural pathways can change.
Past experiences, perfectionistic tendencies, or trauma can reinforce these loops, teaching your brain that it always needs to be on guard. That’s why anxiety isn’t a weakness — it’s your nervous system adapting to protect you.
The hopeful news? With the right support, those neural pathways can change.
How Can Therapy Help?
Therapy provides a safe space to slow down and untangle what anxiety has built up over time. It’s not about forcing yourself to “just stop worrying.” It’s about learning new ways to work with your body and mind.
Some approaches I use include:
Together, we would find what combination fits best for you.
Some approaches I use include:
- Nervous system regulation: grounding practices, breathwork, and body-based tools to calm the stress response
- Cognitive tools: gently challenging anxious thoughts and learning to reframe them
- ACT (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy): noticing anxious thoughts without getting pulled into them, while building a life rooted in your deepest values
- EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing): reprocessing past experiences or triggers so they no longer hold the same power, utilizing the brain's ability to rewire itself to create new patterns, reducing the nervous system’s reactivity
- Faith-based integration (per your request): weaving prayer, Scripture, or spiritual practices into the healing journey
Together, we would find what combination fits best for you.
What Working with Me Looks Like
My style is warm, collaborative, and non-judgmental. I believe healing happens when you feel safe enough to be fully yourself.
In sessions, we’ll explore both practical tools and deeper patterns. That may include grounding practices, journaling prompts, or guided prayers and affirmations if you’d like. You’ll always leave with something you can practice between sessions.
We’ll focus not only on relief — finding ways to calm anxiety in the moment — but also on transformation: building resilience, self-compassion, and a life where anxiety is no longer in the driver’s seat.
In sessions, we’ll explore both practical tools and deeper patterns. That may include grounding practices, journaling prompts, or guided prayers and affirmations if you’d like. You’ll always leave with something you can practice between sessions.
We’ll focus not only on relief — finding ways to calm anxiety in the moment — but also on transformation: building resilience, self-compassion, and a life where anxiety is no longer in the driver’s seat.
Moving Toward Peace
I’m passionate about walking with people through anxiety because I’ve seen how life can change when the weight begins to lift day by day. It is possible to experience deeper joy, abiding peace, and confidence in your everyday life.
If you’re ready to take steps toward healing, I would be honored to walk with you. I offer anxiety counseling at our North Austin and Georgetown locations, where together we can begin your journey toward peace and freedom.
If you’re ready to take steps toward healing, I would be honored to walk with you. I offer anxiety counseling at our North Austin and Georgetown locations, where together we can begin your journey toward peace and freedom.
Catherine is EMDR trained and works with adults, college students, and teenagers (16+). She specializes in grief and loss, depression, anxiety, trauma, spiritual concerns, complex family dynamics, and life transitions. She believes that we are all in the process of becoming someone, and each of us is graciously invited to take an active role in who we will become. Catherine sees it as a deep honor to be even a small part of someone else’s journey towards flourishing. If you would like to meet with Catherine or another ALCS counselor, please contact our office.
For specific questions, email Catherine at catherine@abundantlifecounseling.com .
For specific questions, email Catherine at catherine@abundantlifecounseling.com .
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